Choirboy Confessions
July 13, 2011 • Feeling My Age • Comments
Between the ages of 10 and 14 I sang in the choir of our local church, where the regime was High Anglican with incense and Candlemass, King James bible and the 1662 Book of Common Prayer. Despite, or perhaps because of, my vociferously atheist dad I took the classes and got confirmed into the church, and started taking regular Communion.
One reason all the Anglo-Catholic razamatazz resonated so deeply for me was that, even before my teens, I was riddled with guilt. Having been physically attracted by other boys for as long as I could remember – certainly from age six – I might not have understood the full implications of those feelings. But I was certain the secret fantasies that had me writhing nightly in bed were deeply shameful.
The first time I attended communion and heard the 1662 General Confession it hit home like an Exocet. The remembrance of my misdoings certainly was grievous unto me, and the burden of them was indeed intolerable. Faith in Our Lord Jesus Christ seemed to offer some sort of way out. At least until night time, when of course my misdoings recurred all over again. [More]